floundersgreatadventure

First I apologize for not posting the last few days but Rubies cousin Christian passed away Saturday and we were involved with that. He was only thirty three he had lung Cancer and had a lung transplant last year. Everybody thought he was doing better but Wed. or Thur. of last week he got sick it was an infection in the other lung and he went quickly. I won’t go into details of the funeral it was very beautiful and well over a hundred people showed up. As we get older we see people we know and love die but no one expects someone so young to die. Parents are never supposed to bury their children. While Jeff sat thru this with his wife Ruby, who was sadder than he had ever seen her, he decided he didn’t want any of this when he died. He knows his nieces will want to be there and family will put pressure on Ruby to have funeral but he doesn’t want people, some of whom he won’t even know, standing around saying stuff about him. he would rather they Cremate him right away then the family can gather to scatter his ashes someplace quiet and peaceful. Then they should go and party not sit around and cry. Jeff is nonreligious and doesn’t want to be hypocritical after he’s gone. He wants people to take his wife and party she doesn’t need to feel sad and morn my death she should celebrate life. Jeff hopes people will abide by his wishes, but he dies he’s not going to know one way or the other. I don’t want to talk about this anymore this is Flounder saying CIAO from Colombia.